12.31.2012

what kind of conversations are you guys having with your spouses about this past Christmas? is it every any wonder why we keep trying to make this life more simple? more in tune with the natural progression of the year?

this time of year, the new year, we seem to want to make new resolutions/etc.......and doing so during the Christmas season.....as might be a good idea, it is quite possible that instead of making resolutions on this day, a deeper sense of the reality of who you are and where you are should be determined

meaning

what if instead of putting that pressure upon ourselves, just because others are doing so, we accepted who we are, how we look, and where we live with honor, respect, love and thanksgiving

don't get me wrong.....I am the first one to set a goal, do it, and then go on to the next one (especially when it comes to cleaning....like my forgotten pantry which took over four hours the other day)

how about the peace of self

not only will this give you the confidence to go out into the world and be who you want to be, but the pressure is off

i tend to like pressure a bit....sometimes i need it to help me along

but there are times, when all i need to do is step back, and see the situation and just accept it.....honor the people involved in it.....respect myself........love whatever and whomever is involved.......and give thanks for the joy it is bringing me

i don't know about you all, but i'm ready to work at this more and more each...to create an environment that is peaceful and joyful for those near and dear to me

but it will take work



maybe a few tools too.....and a lot of patience, fortitude and faith

but i'm ready

are you?

xo + new year blessings,



18 comments:

  1. Love your words!!! Every time i see that beauty horse of yours , i want !!! LOL Love the last photo, you look adorable!!!! Happy New Year to you !!!

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  2. Love that idea... one of the hardest things for those of us (women) is aging...
    I have such a hard time accepting the changes going on in my body..wrinkles, layers and all.
    I plan on doing many "new" things this year.. Doing some things I have wanted to do but
    just did not.. thanks and blessings to you!

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  3. Dear Anne Marie! Irish you and your family a very very Happy New Year! With love, Geli

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  4. sounds like a wonderful way to embrace 2013. happy new year my friend. cute pix of you all. love the carhartt hat.

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  5. Beautiful post..
    Happy New Year..

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  6. A lovely thought. Happy New Year! I have so enjoyed visiting your blog this past year and look forward to many more beautiful posts this coming year!

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  7. Happy New Year Anne Marie - our spousal conversation was realising today is our 40th wedding anniversary - we had lost count! (and to celebrate we have two new dogs, first time in thirty years) ~

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  8. I can't remember what inspired this ... or when I started it ... but lately I've been reminding myself, "come from a place of love" whenever I deal with others who are difficult or are annoying me. It totally changes my attitude toward that person. That's probably my number one goal right now as I work to improve myself ... always treat others with love and compassion and to remember that God loves that person just as much as He loves me. It's hard, and yes it takes patience, but it always ends in better results and I've been amazed at how some situations turn around because I've come from a place of love as opposed to coming from a place of irritation or selfishness. :) I always appreciate what you blog about. Thanks for sharing a bit of yourself with each blog post.

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  9. I am totally ready and I am already working on this...I've begun before Christmas and it is hard work but now that I know I' m not alone following and wanting to create this peaceful environment around me, I feel even stronger and more resolute.
    I've noticed that when I accept myself, with my lacks and also some of my negative features (and believe me...I have such an awful nature sometimes, mostly because of all the pressure I feel on me and I myself put on my shoulders), well, when I accept who I am, everyone around me (be GG, Denny, my parents, the people I work with) feels better and "works" better with me....
    that must be the key...yes, i think you are more then right.
    Fra

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  10. p.s. The new vegetable garden is SO BIG!!!

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  11. Happy New Year, Anne Marie! Beautiful blog post. At Mass this morning, Father suggested that instead of making lists of New Year's Resolutions (that most will break before the week is out! LOL) we stop making our own plans and allow God to make plans for us. Ooooh...so good and deep! He suggested that we look to our Blessed Mother as a role model for always listening for God's voice...and saying YES.

    Wishing you a blessed 2013,

    Val

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  12. Beautiful thought provoking post. Just love coming here... Wishing you a healthy and happy New Year.

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  13. So well said and spiritually enriching and challenging, as always :) You bless my heart Anne Marie!
    Blessings,
    Marcia

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  14. I have started this process Anne Marie, and I must say it is hard, but oh so satisfying once you do start it. Your space is, as always, inspiring. mb

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  15. I love what you had to say Anne Marie, it was very encouraging.

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  16. Happy New year Ann Marie! You are beautiful float! Ha! I love your inspiring thoughts.
    Hugs to you,
    Tracy

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  17. Such an awesome way to look at things! I hope that this New Year brings an abundance of God's blessings to you and your sweet family!

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  18. Ann Marie, I love every about your blog. I have been following you for months now and you have left a large impression on me. I would love if you could write a guest post on my blog shaggsyheephome.com. hope you and your family have a wonderful year of faith!

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